When it comes to sharing our sexual needs and desires things can sometimes get too personal. Much like discussing money, we are discouraged from talking about sex in direct ways. The funny thing twist in all of this, though, is we watch plenty porn together but can’t bring ourselves to feel comfortable about our own sexuality.
While a fantasy about being dominant may indicate you are interested in that particular kink, it is just a part of the complex inner world that makes up your dirty, dirty mind. We say what happens in your brain, stays in your brain, so enjoy the moment and then let it go if it doesn’t match what the rest of you wants.