The reality to getting what you want with a new or existing partner is to talk openly about every aspect of your sex life. By communicating our feelings honestly, and creating clear limits, and then honoring them is what makes everyone happier and healthier. Here’s are ways to make negotiating better sex feel less like buying a car and more like discovering a hidden treasure.
There’s an old adage that ‘If you don’t use it, you lose it.’ I think there is some truth in that because I have noticed that the more I have sex, the hornier I am. Your body and mind get pulled into a million directions and unless sex is presented as an area of focus, it can slip from your mind completely.
For some people, it’s about the struggle to get free, while others enjoy the sense of surrender. However, the one thing that is most loved about rope bondage is that it is multi-functional. Not only does it keep someone immobilized, it can also be a beautifully captivating body adornment or it can be used to create pleasurable pressure points.
Remember when working with a mammoth-sized member, it will take more time. Some things will be just impossible, and it could take a lot more planning and equipment than you initially thought. Sometimes, you might start to feel like you are helping someone build Ikea furniture rather than engaging in a spontaneous act of lovemaking.
Sadly most of the cures for impotency out there turn out to be nothing but snake oil. From the aptly named Horny Goat Weed to the scientific-sounding L-arginine, impotency-curing herbs and supplements make big promises they don’t deliver on. Doctors say that while some of these may help with increased blood flow, there is no evidence to show that they can actually help with impotence, and some herbs can even inhibit your erection.
By definition, bondage is the partial or full restriction of your partner’s movement. It could be because you want to spice things up, or just curious about how it will make you feel. The good news is that BDSM (bondage, domination, sadism, masochism) has unlimited possibilities to enhance your sex life, and it can be fun, exhilarating, and extremely pleasurable.
There is no occasion when dignity and manners are required than at an orgy. A “cock & tail” party might seem like a free-for-all sexfest. But there are some basic rules needing to be followed. As a guest, abiding by the rules can ensure the party goes off with a bang—or rather, many bangs.