I think Missy Elliott best sums up the general attitude about climaxing too soon when she sings about not wanting ‘no one-minute man.’ Of course, no guy wants to shoot his wad too early or be labeled the ‘premature ejaculator.’ So, to those men that have trouble lasting, you should, first of all, take a deep breath and relax. Here are some strategies to help you get over premature ejaculation and improve your sexual stamina.
Here’s the thing—as you have blood specifically filling the area that controls arousal, this is what you are going to work. It’s the same as exercising any other muscle. You can obtain the best contractions while your penis is erect. But you’ll notice as you masturbate, the harder it will be to contract the muscle during Kegels. However, the harder you contract the muscle, the longer you will be able to contract the muscle. This is where the magic happens.
On the weekend my wife and I got to try out the Hot Octopuss together. What powerful foreplay! I slipped the puss onto my rod, turned it on and placed myself between my wife’s spread legs. I pressed the Octopuss against her mound and she was getting turned on. Our mutual arousal grew, and my member was so hard and aching rubbing against the pulsating center of the Puss. I felt like a rodeo bull rider, though actually maybe that was reversed.
I am writing to share my experience with the Aneros Eupho Male G-Spot Stimulator. I am not the kind of person to talk about sex with anyone, period. So I am writing this anonymously, and I am relating this because I think other men can greatly benefit.
Let me start by telling you a little about myself. I am an older man, in my late 50s, and I admit I am not in great physical shape; I carry about 30 extra pounds on me, and it’s not muscle. I think about working out and dieting, just haven’t started yet. I did some kinky things when I was younger, so I am open-minded to some extent.
So the story starts when I got home on a Friday evening and my (much younger, foxy) wife presented me with a gift in a nice-looking box. Inside was this odd-shaped thing that resembled a twisty little butt plug that had a loop handle on one end. With a mischievous look in her eyes, she said she had ordered it off the Liberator website. I was truly surprised. We have done anal play from time to time during our bedroom romps but it had always been me attending to her “naughty little hole.”
I admit, I was game to try this; however, she said it was not a “butt plug.” As the name describes it, it was supposed to stimulate a man’s G-Spot. That was news to me; I had never heard of a male G-Spot. We read over the simple instructions, much of which was commonsensical, about being clean, about being well lubricated. The directions said to ease it in slowly and I definitely would not dispute that advice. The thing is, it was not a toy that your partner would use on you, you could apply it yourself. And I did.
When we were naked and after some foreplay when we were both aroused, she suggested I put it in. So I got on my hands and knees, with my legs spread a bit, and I inserted it. I easily found the right angle and slowly pushed it in. Whoa! Amazingly, it clicked into place and stayed in place. Right away I felt a bolt of pleasure, translating into my organ getting stiffer. Our play was enhanced right away. I started touching my wife all over, licking her nipples then down to her treasure trove. I was not conscious of the anal toy itself, but I was more turned on. At one point I raised up off my wife and felt how my sphincter muscles (I guess, blush) were able to clench around this naughty toy, and it was still securely in place.
Now I don’t come easy, and sometimes I just don’t come at all and have to pleasure myself later to get relief. When I mounted my wife, missionary style on the Liberator Wedge, it was amazing how amorous I felt. I kept pumping and pumping into her, getting a momentum going and I felt that desire that said,”You’re going to blow your load.” I kept at it like a plane speeding up about to lift off the runway, and then I left the runway, and I hammered my prick as I started shooting. Oh my gawd. Damn that was good. My heart was pounding and the orgasm was fantastic. My wife loved that I was getting off like I did, and that enhanced her own pleasure.
After I had finished doing my business, that kinky stimulator slipped out and plopped on the bed. Wow. The next night, we had an even better sexual session. I was more aroused that night, too, and I administered to my wife’s pleasure, giving her two orgasms. You can bet I had that Aneros Anal Probe inside me. So I am raving about this device, because I think it will trip out other men, too, whatever their physical condition or prowess.