Written by Jennifer Elizabeth Masters
From porn stars to movie stars we have heard about men with huge packages. Some have become famous for their endowment. Men worry about their size, like women worry about their weight. Feeling good about the way we look and feel once our clothes drop to the floor can make all the difference in our love-making experience. Whether you have a monster in your drawers or not won’t matter a bit if you can’t hold an intelligent, witty, conversation or there is nothing kind, loving or warm in your heart. Most women want a connection, not just to do the horizontal mambo with you.
Women who have had hugely blessed men complain that sex is painful to the point of not being possible. An extra large package can strike terror in the heart’s and mind’s of the maiden receiving your ample gifts. When the hammer is so large that it can’t strike the right chords, no music can be played. If a man’s size is so great he can’t gain entry, what fun or pleasure is there? (Remember to use a natural lubrication aid, I love organic coconut oil or extra virgin olive oil, my joke, as it returns us women into our virginal state.)
Here are 5 ways to make the most of what you’ve got:
1. Get Your Groove On!
The action of thrusting and the points that are touched are what ignite the fire in a woman. Smaller and average sized packages are able to pack a lot of punch in the action department that larger men cannot. Finding her most sensitive areas and where to focus the friction is what counts the most. Sometimes it is the shorter strokes that make the biggest impact. How your bodies move together can be as exciting as what is going on inside. Many women can experience an all over body orgasm through skin contact alone!
2. Change It UP!
Women like different pressure, speeds and motions. Doing one thing all the time isn’t going to get her there. Instead of thrusting all the way, tease her with shorter strokes. Stop. Pull out slowly and then thrill her by slowly slipping in and pushing all the way to the anterior of her nether region. Deep inside is where some women experience the most profound orgasm. Changing positions so that you can hit her G-Spot as you graze through can make her gasp for air.
3. Digital Romance Her!
Women like to be pleasured in different ways with different body parts. Let your fingers do the talking. Digital play is a great place to begin, you will have her smiling if you learn to master finger play. You can give her more focused pleasure when you digitally stimulate her. The woman’s most sensitive body part is the clitoris and has twice the number of nerve endings than a man’s package. Don’t forget to massage her outside as well. Just inside the vaginal opening is a very sensitive area to pleasure. Remember to add this to your repertoire with oral sex as well.
4. Tongue in Cheek!
Most women love oral sex as much as men do. It is the fastest way to bring a women to orgasm. So practice! Practice! Practice! Get good at the art of oral. This is not like a kitten lapping at a bowl of milk. If you don’t like it, she’ll know. Think about how the tables have turned. If you want it, you have to be able to give it well.
5. Ladies First Last AND ALWAYS!
Take care of your partner’s needs first, before yours. This will plant you in first place in her heart and mind. The best lovers pleasure their woman first, before they think of theirs. This key ingredient to great sex will have your woman coming back for more. All women are multi-orgasmic, but most don’t know it because it is the rare man who spends enough time rocking her world. The addition of vibrator can make you a hero, and give your tongue a little break. The focus needs to be on her, before you. When she is happy, she will make sure you are too. Size will not be as important when she is smiling like a Cheshire cat.
Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is the author of Orgasm For Life, as well as a sex, love and relationship coach. She writes from personal experience with warmth, directness and an openness that is refreshing. As an Intuitive healer, hypnotherapist, Neurolinguistic Programming Practitioner and energy healer, she is unusually adept at getting to the root of her client’s issues quickly. Her website is JenniferElizabethMasters.com