To believe that it is a drastically more degrading act to jerk someone off than to shove your arm up his ass is, in a sense, to believe that subjugation resides in the submissive nature of an act, rather than the sexual. But if the fisted client desires that fist as much as another desires a hand job, how is submitting to one desire any more powerful than the other?
A majority of the pleasure objects on the market today differ greatly from what was available a few years ago. Instead of recreating the same old shapes, designers are developing products catering to a more diverse and hungry market. Nowhere is it more apparent than in Objects of Desire: A Showcase of Modern Erotic Products and the Creative Minds Behind Them.