Anyone’s first time is going to be a big deal. And certainly, on her wedding night, the pressure might overwhelm what is important—experiencing your love and expressing it physically. Honestly, you don’t need a lot of tricks to make it meaningful.
Using a dental dam may keep your saliva from disrupting what she’s got going on down there. You can make one yourself from a super thin condom or latex glove. Just use a bit of silicone-based lube on her to keep it from getting tacky and lick away.
It sounds like doggy maximizes his impact but still have not found the perfect approach, even with all your Shapes. Unfortunately, anything with him standing is not going to work unless you are lifted up to align with his dick. Unless your man can do squats like Bruce Lee, he won’t be able to come down to your level. It’s going to be impossible for him to lower himself for long periods. It will take experimentation to find the alignment that works for both of you.
There’s an old adage that ‘If you don’t use it, you lose it.’ I think there is some truth in that because I have noticed that the more I have sex, the hornier I am. Your body and mind get pulled into a million directions and unless sex is presented as an area of focus, it can slip from your mind completely.
We are surrounded by media and movies that tell us women should orgasm in 5 seconds and only through vaginal sex. Needing anything else is perceived as wrong or not sexy. Not only that, there is an assumption on men that they should be able to make a woman orgasm just like that—nothing more than their magic penis needed.
I tend to think that it changes your expectations rather than sensations. A vibrator can feel more intense and work faster than your hand or mouth. After some time, you can grow to expect that level of sensation and that reaction from your body.
The first step to making any woman squirt—is making her comfortable. It all starts in her mind, long before you are actually having sex. Don’t pressure her, don’t place expectations on her. If she feels like you are expecting her to squirt and she cannot, the frustration may ruin your chances.