The primary reason for not venturing south is because I believed there would be more pain than pleasure. Boy, was I wrong. For the past few months, I’ve been experimenting with anal pleasures—not anal sex, but play. At first, I could barely stand the anticipation and had a few false starts. But then I realized something. Anal play is way more effective and pleasurable when you’re really close to coming.
I could really kick myself for not trying them sooner, but it’s better late than never. I know a lot guys out there are thinking exactly what I thought and may be hesitant to try anal toys for fear of being perceived as deviant, or that it will be painful, or worse yet, falsely believing that anal play is something that only same sex couples do. Well, all of that could not be further from the truth.
Once upon a time, in a dark and scary time in our history, there weren’t many choices in sex toys. To get our rocks off, we had to resort to slinking into some neon-dazed sex shop to buy something more for the amusement than its function. Thankfully, those days are long gone, and we’ve got choices up the wazoo. Now there are tons of pleasure enhancing devices that have amazing form and function that can also be customized for any adventure.