The primary reason for not venturing south is because I believed there would be more pain than pleasure. Boy, was I wrong. For the past few months, I’ve been experimenting with anal pleasures—not anal sex, but play. At first, I could barely stand the anticipation and had a few false starts. But then I realized something. Anal play is way more effective and pleasurable when you’re really close to coming.
For starters, one of the easiest positions, for anal play, is when the giver is sitting on a flat surface with the receiver situated comfortably on the giver’s lap. It’s easy for the receiver to adjust the entry and stimulation (vitally important for anal sex) while the giver’s hands are free to support the receiver’s body, or play with the receiver’s breasts and genitals.