“The Wedge/Ramp Combo saved our sex life.”
The Righteous Brothers could not have said it any better: “You’ve lost that lovin’ feeling.” Our sex life was gone, gone, gone. After 20 years of marriage, my wife was just not interested anymore, and I was beginning to feel needy. Once (or twice if I was lucky) a month, we’d do the same old, same old. Someone would go down on the other one and then we’d have sex for as long as possible… never long enough.
But in the back of my mind, I kept wondering what to do next? Therapy? I hate nosey counselors. Open Marriage? That’s just going to make our problems worse. Hiring a prostitute? Sorry, not my thing. Divorce? I didn’t want it to come to that.
And then at the 11th hour, my friend told me about the Liberator Wedge/Ramp Combo. Honestly, I didn’t know if she would like it or not, but I thought it couldn’t hurt. I showed her the website and she was open to it, so I took it as a good sign.
Having a glass of wine is a requirement before unpacking the thing. (Don’t judge. That’s the way we do it around here.) It comes in this tiny bag and when you open it, it expands instantly. We made jokes about how each of us would look like naked while trying the position guide. But I could tell she was excited about trying them. Being the consummate class clown, I could not resist giving her a wacky demonstration of my own. Already it was turning out to be fun.
Making it a game really broke the ice while figuring out how to use our new Wedge/Ramp Combo. At first, we could not agree on a location because she wanted the floor but I wanted the bed. Eventually, it lead to a discussion about why she did not like the bed. We both agreed to try a new location and placed the Wedge/Ramp Combo smack dab on the living room floor. The wide open space made it easy to for us to play.
To make the first time more of a spontaneous adventure, I half-closed my eyes and pointed to the first position. It was the one for oral sex on me, so I laid with my hips resting on top of the smaller Wedge. There was an immediate difference. My hips were thrust up higher than you would think from that tiny pillow. Getting the hang of things, she recommended adding the Ramp to go under my back. This position was a huge turn-on and extremely sexy because I could see everything she was doing. Watching my penis enter her mouth added a whole new dimension to the experience. And she seemed to be enjoying it more too.
Here’s a little secret, guys. Make your lady truly believe you’re a dynamo in the sack by memorizing the positions in the included position guide beforehand. That way you can move from position to position, like starring in your own porn. The seamless position changes and more confident on maneuvering my wife made a huge difference with her interest. Believe me, she’ll love your take charge attitude.
I love my wife, but after that long of the same thing, you start to feel bored of it, and both of you are boring. The Wedge/Ramp Combo and its variety pack of positions was a fun way to get out of that and do something new. It’s been a few months already and we’ve tried a whole bunch of positions. It’s a great way to get her interested by saying I thought up a new position to try. But my favorite is when she’s riding me backward…reverse cowgirl. The Ramp offers just the right angle while the Wedge lets me thrust upward without straining my hip muscles. And with the added height, she can really get into the groove and stay on top a lot longer. (Pssst, got another secret. The Shapes are great for masturbating too).
- Have fun while opening the package.
- Don’t be afraid to take charge.
- Use the Ramp to keep your head elevated for watching the action.
- Study the position guide.
“I’m like a new woman with the Wedge/Ramp Combo.”
If you don’t use it, does it fall off? My vagina was probably full of cobwebs from lack of use. But the truth was that I just didn’t think about sex that much. I was tired and was really busy at work. I know my husband wanted it more, but something was always in the way. As soon as I got into bed, my day was over. Of course, I wanted to be intimate with him. It was just hard to get into the habit of sex. It was time for some excitement (and not the dressing up in cliché lingerie kind either).
The hubby showed me the website and I thought the Wedge/Ramp Combo looked like fun and they said it was the most popular one. I liked the images, but I had never tried anything like that before. It came in the mail and I thought something was wrong. How did they fit those two products in such a tiny box? It must be magic. Just slip on the (fabulously soft) covers and viola! Instant sex furniture. It was easy to assemble and I was pretty excited just to enjoy the build up of trying them out.
It’s unbelievable how many positions can be done with the Wedge/Ramp Combo. The first night we only tried a couple, but each time we brought it out of the closet we would try something new. When I first laid down on it, I felt kind of exposed, so I wanted to take it slow so that I could build my confidence and give us the opportunity to understand our limits. I thought the bed would just make me think of sleep, so we started on the floor using just the Wedge under his hips and Ramp behind his back. I have to say, oral was easier for me with it because his penis was right there and I didn’t have to reach down as much.
We kept things simple (missionary) during the first few times using the Wedge/Ramp Combo together. Then, still keeping it on the floor, we experimented more with his favorite position, doggy. This position has never been my go-to. But leaning across the Ramp, with my ass in the air and my chest resting on the Wedge, really amped up the sensations. I don’t know if it was the height, angle, or both, but I could actually feel each stroke from his penis. Plus, we were able to go for a lot longer since I was not relying on my arms and knees to support all of my body weight. I could tell he was liking it too, which makes all the difference in the world.
After a while, I was feeling like a pro and we were coming up with our own positions on the fly. Then it happened—my first multiple orgasm. I was in the Take Flight position I saw on this blog. Me on my back with my legs on his shoulders and him standing on the floor off the bed. His hands were free to rub on my clitoris and that did the trick, plus the really intense penetration I was getting. I honestly didn’t think I could do that!
- Don’t let yourself fall into a rut. Be open to new ideas.
- Talk about everything so you feel comfortable.
- Keep things simple—at first.
- Make it a team effort to try new positions.
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