While taking an erect penis all the way down the throat is the holy grail of oral sex skills, it is not necessarily something that is passed down from generation to generation like a family recipe. That’s because very few people have the capacity to gulp down an entire penis without getting those gag reflexes all fired up. With the average mouth depth being only 3 to 4-inches, and the average penis length at 5 to 6-inches, it’s no wonder why some people have trouble gobbling the knob. But it is something that can be learned. Deep-throating your lover one inch at a time can be fairly easy, once you put your mind where your mouth is.

Deep ThroatPractice Make Pleasure

Practicing your technique with a dildo makes your first try with the real thing a little less awkward. Start off using one that is slim and flexible and focus on finding your gag reflex—that super sensitive spot where you start gagging. That’s your soft palate, and it reacts to keep you from choking. Luckily, your brain can be the boss of your body, so you can train it to not freak out every time something brushes against it.

Once you reach the point of gagging, stop and withdraw the dildo. Relax for a minute and try again. Using the same dildo, let it travel on the roof of your mouth while keeping the tongue pulled downward helps prevent gagging. The point of this exercise is learning what triggers your reflex and looking for a path that doesn’t make you want to gag in the first place. Plus you will build up your tolerance so that your throat is not as sensitive anymore. It will take time, but it will eventually lead to taking him inch-by-inch.

Mind Over Matter

There’s a popular dentist trick that helps turn off the gag reflexes. Simply tuck your thumb into a clenched fist and squeeze. This technique helps distract the brain and lets you perform the best oral sex ever. Anything that keeps your mind off your throat will help, so keep focused on him, your body, and your intimacy to keep from involuntarily reacting. Staying relaxed is key!

Deep ThroatPerfect Moves

There is an easier way to deep throat than your standard blow job positioning. Normally, the man lays down and you hover over top of him, but this keeps your neck curved down and makes it way to easy too reach the back of it. With a special position, he can go all the way to the back of your throat and tickle your tonsils—and you won’t gag!

Lie on your back with your head over the edge of the Ramp. You should be looking upside down. Move your hands to his waist and hold on to him. This gives you more control of his thrusting. Pull his pelvis close and suck him onto your mouth. On the outstroke, extend your arms and push him away in increments. Just before he leaves your mouth, place your tongue on the tip of his penis and swirl.

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Give it a Whirl

Your man won’t turn down a blow job because you can’t deep-throat. And he won’t enjoy it as much if you’re not enjoying it too, so, don’t push yourself beyond what you are comfortable with. Be patient, even if you wind up gagging a bit. Pull back, suck the head and say, “Honey, you are just so big!” Some guys also enjoy the gag, since it shows how much you are into him having a good time.

Deep ThroatMost guys will be thrilled to watch you take the whole thing in your mouth—nothing fancy needed. If that is all you can handle, he will be more than satisfied. But, if you get there and want to spice it up, extend your tongue up and down his shaft. Or, gently move your head back and forth to circle your mouth around his dick. You can suck on it, but it will probably wear your jaw out faster, so be careful of overextending yourself.

Hand Jive

Don’t think you need to have his penis all the way down your throat the whole time. Going deep is a great way to add flavor to your blow job, but too much of a good thing can make it not as titillating for him. When you need a break, take one and pull back to relax. Even switch it up and use your lubed hands for a while. Press both hands together over his penis and slowly move your hands up and down his shaft and over his head. This will keep him hard and entertained until you’re ready to dive in again.

Not so sadly for your partner, this skill needs to be done frequently in order to be maintained. So use it or lose it!

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