We’ve all been there at one time or another. In the beginning of the relationship, sex was frenzied and passionate. Now, it seems like a lot of bother. We go through a series of motions with perfunctory foreplay and lead into the same tried-and-true positions. How do things that start off with such enthusiasm end up being something totally expected?
Love grows with time, and so should the passion. The old adage of sex becoming routine is just that. It can shape how you view your relationship with your partner. Taking action helps overcome that belief. You’ve got to work at it, and it is worth it.
In economic terms, relationships can suffer from LDR—Law of Diminishing Returns. It’s like having your first glass of water on a hot day. At first, it quenches your thirst and feels like heaven. After each glass, however, things become a little less satisfying. That’s because your need is not as strong and the sensations not as novel. By the millionth glass, you may be sick of water altogether.
The trick is to add a little flavoring. There is no end to the variety of experiences you can have with a little creativity—and some Liberator Sex Furniture, of course.
Inspiration Comes Easy
Sex is the glue that helps bond couples together, while unexpected surprises keep us going back for more. No matter how many times you have been with your partner, that variety is the spice that will keep your partnership saucy.
Creativity can come from anywhere. But first, you’ll have to let go of your inhibitions. Moving together helps with discovering new ways of being expressive. If you usually have sex laying flat on a bed, you will probably end up doing the same thing every time. Objects not in motion tend to stay that way. You’ve got to get up and get out the comfort zone to make a real impact.
Create the Right Conditions
Liberator sex furniture sets the stage, making it easy to switch positions and discover new ones. Standing, lying, or sitting on our furniture puts your bodies in alignment more so that you don’t have to worry about awkward moments of “ouch!’ or “um, I don’t think that goes there.” With being able to move all around the piece, you can really discover sex in a way that you did not consider when you were flat on a bed and moving in one direction.
Moreover, it makes sex feel better, so you’ll find new inspiration in your pleasure. These ergonomic accessories are designed to provide deeper angles and more comfortable positions. For oral, it lifts up the receiver to make him or her more accessible for the giver. With the strain taken off your neck and shoulders, you can last for a lot longer. The same principle can apply to doggy. The receiver will be beautifully arrayed on the piece of Liberator sex furniture with a lot of sexy exposure for eye candy and the ability to enjoy it for longer.
Liberator’s sex furniture is fashionably crafted to fit into any home. Unless your neighbors are already aware, they will not recognize your Liberator furniture when they see it in your bedroom or living room. And if they do… well, you’ll have lots to brag about with each other!
There are so many benefits to Liberator sex furniture, it is an easy choice to purchase one. What is not so easy, is deciding which one works best for you. It all depends on how you prefer to have sex—not just your current favorite position, but what you want to achieve. Think past your current repertoire and see our handy guide for the features and benefits of each of our pieces.
Missionary: If you love missionary, you can get deeper angles from the Esse Lounger. It is wider than the Esse Chaise, so you’ll have more room to spread out. Plus, the curves will tilt her pelvis forward for maximum sensation and penetration. The Equus is also great for missionary, with greater ability for the man to place his feet on the ground for extra thrusting power.
Doggy: There as so many variations with from-behind positions, and Liberator sex furniture has its own twist. A good way to tell which one will work best is from the man’s height. The Esse Chaise is lower to the ground, so it’s better for shorter men. The receiver can be on her knees on either hump, or she can be draped over it for sexy exposure. The taller Esse has a similar shape, but it is better for those that do not want to put pressure on their knees by having to bend down.
Girl-on-top: The narrow body of the Esse Chaise is best for cowgirl and reverse cowgirl positions. She can easily put her feet on the ground, because of its low profile. Plus, she can use the floor to push off from for more powerful thrusts and ease off her thighs. The Equus is also narrow enough to straddle comfortably but provides a flat surface for play rather than curved.
Standing: While the Esse and slightly shorter Esse Chaise can both be used for standing positions, with the receiver either lying or kneeling on either end, those that are above average may desire the Flip Stage lift it off the ground to pelvis level. Also ideal for those that prefer standing positions over longer sessions without having to stoop down.
Kneeling: If you have concern for your knees, wrists, and elbows, the Zeppelin is ideal for creating a supportive, yet giving, surface for positions that would otherwise put too much pressure on your joints. While the Zeppelin, the Zeppelin Lounger, and the Zeppelin Cocoon can handle any position, their real appeal is the comfort they provide.
Sitting: Any sitting or lotus position can be enhanced on the Esse or the Esse Chaise but facing each other in the middle. The narrower body of the Esse Chaise makes it better for straddling, so those with limited flexibility should choose that one. The Equus is also ideal for straddling and provides a flat, firm surface rather than curved for an uplifted playscape.4