Cinderella, and happily-ever-after, takes on a whole new twist when Prince Charming reveals that he has a fancy for the feet. He is a perfect match for her, and her petite feet—well, let’s just say they are a perfect fit for him. It wasn’t that the evil step-sister’s weren’t pretty enough. They just didn’t get the concept of offering up something special to satisfy his fetish for feet.
There a lot of men that enjoy giving their partner a gentle foot massage after a long days work or a helping hand with a pedicure. But that’s not who we’re talking about. The men we’re talking about are the avid enthusiast’s for anything south of the ankle. Relying solely on foot worship to enhance their own arousal.
Fetish Does Not Equal Weird
Having a fetish doesn’t necessarily mean wanting to wear adult diapers or a furry costume (although, by our standards, that’s not weird either). “You just happen to find a normally non-sexual object or action arousing—an association you probably formed in childhood”, says Samantha Leigh Allen, at Emory University. In a nutshell, “fetish” means one person’s erotic fixation is another person’s weird. So when someone is in a heightened state of arousal, the gross-out impulse weakens while the erotic senses flourish.
Someone with a foot fetish might want to worship your feet, meaning he or she would enjoy sucking on your toes and massaging your feet. A little more involved, and they may ask you for a foot job and to come using your feet. They may also get pleasure from having you walk on them, or rubbing your high heels or stocking feet in their face. They may be fixated on the size and shape of your foot, your toenails, your shoes, your arches, and the scent of your feet. And get ready for this! They may even ask to sniff your socks or tickle your feet.
While even the infinite depths of Google can’t produce a legitimate statistic on the frequency of Podiatry-Idolatry, the general consensus is that it’s extremely common. You’re more likely to find a partner that has some interest in your feet than you think. Since the object of desire is still a part of the body, this fetish may not be as strange to some partners as it is to others.
So to indulge in some foot worship, here are a few tips for laying the groundwork.
The Royal Treatment
Feet are an erogenous zone which consists of sexual stimulation spots that are linked to the genitals. So massaging them is a great way to get acquainted with your partners level of comfort. It’s also relaxing and arousing—double the benefits.
To begin, pour some lightly scented Lelo Flickering Touch Massage Oil into your hands and rub them together to warm up. Start by going from the ankle to toes, toes to ankle, then back down to the toes with slight pressure and increased speed. After the warm-up, rub your thumbs in circular motions from heel to the toes. Then, make a fist with your hand and gently press your knuckles into the soles of her feet. Don’t forget to massage the tops and sides of each foot—they are just as important as the soles. Once you’ve done this for a few minutes, do each toe individually by placing each one between your thumb and forefinger. When you’re done with each toe, give it a slight tug.
Before you finish up, use both hands to lightly stroke your way from heel to toe. Maintaining occasional eye contact with your partner will determine their pleasure and excitement.
Wiggle Your Big Toe
The easiest way to work with a partner that has a foot fetish is to incorporate it into your foreplay. Toe sucking, or “shrimping” is an acquired taste, no doubt, but you should try everything at least once before you decide that you don’t like it. So here it goes.
Start slowly; first, kiss her ankle and work your way down to the top part of her foot. Keep kissing it, occasionally sticking out your tongue to lick certain areas. Then, when you’re ready, head straight toward the big toe (not immediately after painting it, of course).
Because the big toe is, well, the biggest and the easiest to maneuver into your mouth, start by kissing around it and slowly wrap your mouth around it. While your mouth is covering it, use your tongue to lick it all around.
If you’re enjoying yourself, move on to the other toes one at a time, or put a few in your mouth at a time. Then, when you’re ready, move to the sole of her foot and lick around it. Gently wrap your lips around the sides of her feet. Fight the urge to bite, but a few nibbles will do just fine.
This Little Piggie
If you’re not a fan of wrapping your mouth around someone’s tootsies, you don’t have to. There are plenty of ways to worship her feet without compromising what turns you on. Painting a woman’s toenails can be a great way of showing how much you care.
Also, this method of foreplay often turns a woman on. According to the ladies, watching a man focus on keeping the nail polish on the toenail drives them wild. Unfortunately, you’ll have to wait for the polish to dry before having sex—or don’t!
Because men tend to rely more on visual cues for arousal than women, incorporating foot stimulation during sex can be extremely hot for him. Using your feet to get him off can also be an exciting experience for the woman as well. Since this is going require some slip-n-slide, start by laying down the Liberator Escape Wet while applying liberal amounts of Nuru Magic Gel. Your whole body is included in the fun but your feet will be the primary focus.
Begin by massaging the well-oiled balls of your feet up and down his shaft. His verbal cues will alert you to either pick up the pace or slow down. To add more stimulation to the experience, you can use your other foot to press onto his testicles. (Not too hard though). Once he becomes more aroused, you’ll be able to bring him to a climax by putting your feet together. Leave enough space in between for his penis to glide in and out. With increased pressure and faster motions, gently stroke him until orgasm. The visual of coming on your feet will leave him wanting more in the future.
Of course, every foot fetishist is different. But exploring your partner’s fascination can lead to a great advantage of your sex life. It will show him that you care about what turns him on — and that you’re willing to go there with him. Although it seems like the obvious thing to do, if your man is a foot-lover, it’s a safe bet that he prefers your feet clean and well maintained. One of the nicest things you can do for him is making sure your tootsies are soft and smooth when you show up to meet him. When you’re in the mood, your cue can be just to rub your feet against his hand or simply twinkle a little toe. If he sees you going out of your way to ensure his pleasure, he’ll certainly go out of his way to ensure yours… sexual or otherwise.4