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ask avaMy wife will not give me head. She has something wrong with her jaw and has to wear a night guard. Is there any easy that she give me without it hurting her?

For some women, giving oral sex can make them feel like the 1970’s version of Wonder Woman—smoking hot and powerful. But what if you’re unable to give your man the simple deed of mouth pleasure? Luckily, blow jobs have more to do with using your head than your mouth.

Get the Juice Flowing

Blow Job TricksLike any great athlete, you’ll want to warm up before getting busy. Increase the flexibility of your jaw by doing some gentle yawn exercises. Also, prepare your mouth for his special kiss by sucking on a Masque Flavored Gel Strip. Not only will your mouth taste yummy, it will help produce more saliva which can help prevent lockjaw.

Just the Tip

For some men, the underside of their penis tip (glans) is the most sensitive. So, going beyond that point may be fruitless. When going for the load, try focusing your tongue on his frenulum (the elastic band of tissue under the glans that connects to the foreskin). With a light touch of your tongue, tease that area with soft circular motions. You can use your hand to gently stroke him. However, all of the attention should be on just the tip. When he’s ready to pop, place your mouth just slightly over the head and apply a soft sucking motion.

Hand Jive

So here’s a great solution for women having problems executing their blow job tricks. Get some really good lube (the kind that gets warm). The heat from the lube will feel like the inside of the mouth or vagina. Squirt a lot of it into your hands and wrap your thumb and index finger loosely around his shaft (like an O.K. sign).

Build tension using long, gentle strokes at first, going from the base of his cock to the tip. As he becomes more aroused, include more fingers until your entire hand is squeezing with pressure.

Also, don’t neglect the balls. When it comes to a great hand job, stimulating a man’s testicles is like delivering the first line of a great performance; it’s not the part that gets a standing ovation, but it sure sets the stage for something great. When he’s ready to unload his juice, just cup them gently and apply some pressure as he ejaculates.

Blow Job Tricks

Job Sharing

The mouth and hands don’t have to take first shift of the blow job. By having intercourse first, your vagina can do most of the work for you. Try using a position (reverse cowgirl) where you can move in quickly and have instant access to his penis. When he is getting close to climaxing, change position and give him the oral stimulation and finish him off. Your vagina will limit the time it takes for him to achieve orgasm and will save your jaw from aching. Also, he’ll appreciate being able to just to lie back and let you do all the work.

Solo Practice

When mouth-on-penis is not even an option, help your buddy out a little. Try something that is packed with sensual goodness and is fun to use together. The ultimate in simulated blow jobs is the Tenga Deep Throat Cup. Invented in Japan, these cups go beyond the feeling of a vagina—it will actually feel like a hot, tight mouth.

More Blow Job Tricks

If your life is devoid of a vibrating male sex toy, you are missing out. Not only will you find a vibrator a reasonable substitute for blow jobs, you’ll find that ejaculating can feel more intense. Hot Octopuss Pulse III Solo Guybrator is a toy designed to enhance penis tip stimulation. It may look like a space-aged Blow Job tricksinvention, but I assure you, when you place his lubed cock inside, it will feel like an old-fashioned blow job—all he has to do is close his eyes.

If his needs to go below the tip, then the MysteryVibe Crescendo is a great for all over stimulation. This vibrator can bend to cup his testicles and reconfigure to wrap around the shaft. If he’s in the mood for sharing, the Crescendo works well as a clitoral vibe during intercourse as well.
Doing the same old, same old is going to get stale over time—even with blow jobs. Variety is the spice of any good sex life. And since the penis is not always the way to a man’s heart (it’s usually food) don’t be afraid to play and explore. If blow jobs and oral sex are not part of the agreement, you can try other sexy tricks for variation. The more adventurous and creative you get, the more he will be begging for mercy. So take advantage of using your head and lead the way to blow his mind.

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