Saturday, January 23
Designer Relationships: A New Paradigm
Mark A. Michaels and Patricia Johnson, co-authors of Designer Relationships, say we’re in the middle of a second sexual revolution. Marriage equality is the law of the land. Transgender issues are out of the closet. The next frontier, they believe, is the very nature of the contemporary relationship itself—specifically, the “monogamy mandate” is being challenged.In their new book, Michaels and Johnson debunk some widely accepted relationship myths and offer a new paradigm that emphasizes mutuality, a collaborative mindset, empathy, and transparency. Monogamy, they insist, is just one of many valid relationship structures. By thinking outside the monogamous-nonmonogamous box we free ourselves to create partnerships based on our own circumstances, sexualities, understandings and agreements.
Designer relationships can encompass:
– people who bond emotionally but not sexually
– people who agree to be non-exclusive
– happily single people who have occasional lovers or friends with benefits
– multiple partner configurations where long-term bonds exist among all or some
– partnerships in which people are kinky and that make room to explore kink
– couples who consciously choose to be monogamous
It’s this last point that captures the central message of Designer Relationships and showcases the book’s relevance to almost everyone. When we courageously choose the way of loving that’s right for us, rather than defaulting to society’s expectations, we’re happier, healthier, and equipped to create intimacy with the partner or partners who enrich our lives, challenge us, and help us grow.
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Saturday, February 13
Demystifying – and Then REmystifying – the Vagina
Hi. My name is Tony, and I have a penis. That means that I know less about vaginas than half of the world’s population. That being said, I have learned one or two things in my… travels that I think are important/cool/esoteric enough to share. This is NOT a “Pussy 101” class. I’ll cover the basics briefly, but that sort of information is very easy to obtain elsewhere, ideally from someone born with a vagina. This class is all about creative ways one can stimulate the Holiest of Holes, typically resulting in really, really good orgasms. Here’s the breakdown:
PART 1: WHAT EVERYONE DAMN WELL NEEDS TO KNOW BEFORE DOING ANYTHING TO, AROUND, OR NEAR A VAGINA.
If you wanna get into her, you gotta get her into you
PART 2: FISTING, BECAUSE SOMETIMES YOU JUST WANT TO PRETEND SHE’S A VENTRILOQUIST DUMMY.
You wanna put what, where?!
PART 3: AIN’T NOTHIN BUT A G-SPOT THING.
How the hell does she stay hydrated? I’m glad I brought an umbrella.
PART 4: LOOK MOM, NO HANDS!
Dude, is your girl having a seizure over there? Nah, I just told her to cum. She’s pretty obedient. That’s right. I will cover some “arousal 101” stuff that is always useful and often neglected, then dive straight into the basics of fisting, and then demonstrate what the g-spot is and how to stimulate it. I wasn’t joking (much) about the umbrella. This is the stuff that causes some women to squirt a high pressure jet of love all over the place. Finally, we will get a little arcane and I’ll demonstrate my method for training a woman to cum on command. It’s part luck, part magic, part hypnosis, part pavlovian conditioning, and all awesome.
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Saturday, February 27
Liberator Showcase: Black Label Bondage Series
Hello everyone, Ashley here. I am the Customer Service Manager for Liberator. I’ve been into kink for 5 years and in an active polyamorous relationship for almost 3 years. I have attended classes in BDSM techniques and actively incorporated them into my personal life. I can answer any questions you have about Liberator products and how you can incorporate them to express your kinky desires. Let me Liberate you!
Liberator’s Black Label Series is a great way to create your very own intensely erotic scenes. Our products are very soft for those new to kink or experienced to be able to get rough together safely. This class will not only show you difference positions of our bondage products, but also some tips on what you can do to create your own kinky corner in your home or private play space.