Taking the Plunge

hanging out

So you know you’re kinky but you want to meet like minded people and learn more about the things that interest you. Where do you start? How do you find local munches, meet ups, and events? My recommendation is that you make an account on Fetlife. It’s free to join and participate, although some features are ...

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Fetishes of the not-so-sexual variety

service

This week I want to talk about something you may find unusual: nonsexual fetishes. That’s right, I said non-sexual fetishes. Because being kinky isn’t just about sex. These fetishes are usually actions or activities that are not inherently sexual in nature. However performing or witnessing these acts can be a turn on, or even feelings ...

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Labels, labels, and more labels

bdsm, kink, nipple clamps

It seems no matter where you go there are always labels. Some labels you may find worth embracing, some labels may be too restrictive. But no matter what there are labels. I am a woman, a daughter, a sister, a friend, a dork, a bookworm. I’m also a submissive, a bottom, and a tiny bit ...

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