Neuro-conditioning gives you the permission to come. It sounds like a small thing, but it can open up channels that may otherwise feel blocked. Don’t worry about taking too long, wanting it too much, or not doing it right. You must do it.
Men and women with a few long-term relationships under their belt are likely to have sizable toy collections. Most sex toys are expensive and have a high resale value which makes parting with them even more difficult. With all the time, energy, and money spent acquiring sex toys, it seems sad to start all over again.
Do you find yourself getting aroused at the idea of a food fight? How about when you see someone accidentally sitting on their lunch? Well, my friend, welcome to the wild and messy world of Sploshing. Also known as Wet and Messy (W.A.M), it is when people become sexually excited from frolicking around in sticky and gooey edibles.
Companies from We-Vibe to LELO to Je Joue to L’ Amourose each have their own version of a couples vibe. Couples can now choose from a variety of pleasurable options which is great. But still, how do you know if you’re buying the right one, especially when shopping online?
I use my body as a science experiment, locking myself in my room and masturbating with different techniques, always attune awareness to my body’s reaction when I engage certain muscles or move my fingers in a particular fashion. The first time I am able to replicate the same squirting from sexual experiences in a solo mission was an ‘Aha’ moment to say the least.
The reality to getting what you want with a new or existing partner is to talk openly about every aspect of your sex life. By communicating our feelings honestly, and creating clear limits, and then honoring them is what makes everyone happier and healthier. Here’s are ways to make negotiating better sex feel less like buying a car and more like discovering a hidden treasure.
Anyone’s first time is going to be a big deal. And certainly, on her wedding night, the pressure might overwhelm what is important—experiencing your love and expressing it physically. Honestly, you don’t need a lot of tricks to make it meaningful.