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Some men love getting a blowjob even more than having intercourse. And what’s not to love about them? It can be extremely erotic for women too because you’re taking charge of his pleasure. By using your mouth, tongue, and lips it is like offering him the perfect gift. Plus, it is a great way to amp up your own arousal.
Think you know all the blowjob tricks? Think again! Here’s how to use your tongue, hands, lips, and, yes, even teeth to blow past his expectations and introduce him to levels of bliss that go far beyond his imagination.
Blowjob copyright 2016 Hudson Marquez

©2016 Hudson Marquez

1. Blowjob = Blowjoy

Nothing about a blowjob should be quick. Give him the chance to savor the sensations as you make him squirm. Start off by grazing your mouth against the head of his penis while moving your hand up and down the shaft. As he becomes increasingly aroused occasionally stop and ask what makes him feel good. If you’re comfortable, throw in some dirty talk to heighten the mood.

2. Dip Your Toe In the Deep End

We’ve all seen the porn where the girl magically fits a 10-inch member in her mouth. Though it looks easy on film, it sometimes does not translate well in real life. You can simulate deep throating by combining the use of your hands, mouth, and tongue. Use your hands and get a tight grip on the base of his shaft. Then wrap your lips just below his frenulum. Move in an up and down motion and let your lips meet the top of your fist. This way he’ll be totally covered giving a sensation like being all the way in your mouth. If your guy is still into getting deep throated, check out our step-by-step guide to deep throating like a pro here.

3. Blowjob Intermission

Awkward angles and jaw pain can sometimes make it hard to perform a lengthy blowjob. So, it’s important to use a Liberator Wedge just under his hips. The added height helps prevent neck kinks and lets you give him the royal treatment. If you still need a break, however, try the lipstick technique. Use your hands and brush the head of his cock against the outline of your lips, taking the head in your mouth between outlines for more lubrication. This helps give your jaw a chance to rest while you check in with your partner.

4. A Game of Hot or Cold

Temperature play is a great way to add variety to oral sex. For something cooler, sucking on a flavored popsicle right before you go down on him is bound to give him some tingly sensations. Better yet, warm up winter nights with a few sips of a heated beverage like a hot tea. The added heat from the small amount of tea in your mouth is sure to give rise to the blowjob occasion. Just don’t get so much in your mouth that you choke on it. After all, you’ve got to fit a lot in there!

5. Win-Win

blowjob ©2016 Hudson Marquez

©2016 Hudson Marquez

Guys LOVE a sloppy, wet blowjob. The more you are drooling all over yourself the more they like it. Luckily, you don’t have to rely on your mouth to generate all the wetness. Using the Sensuva’s Lic-o-licious Oral Delight Cream can most certainly heighten the results during a blowjob. Masque Gel Strips are another option for masking the taste and getting your saliva glands working overtime. Not only does its sweet taste linger, it helps soothe the throat so you can take him deeper into your mouth.

6. Explore Down Under

Chances are, you’re already using your tongue in all sorts of tantalizing ways down below. But here’s one blowjob trick you may not have tried before—using the underside of your tongue instead. The soft, silky texture feels especially good on his frenulum (the underside where the head meets the shaft) which wonderland of nerves. Hold the base of his cock and rest your chin on the underside of his shaft. Use the underside on his sweet spot and flick it from side to side like a windshield wiper. Be sure to stop each time you hit his pleasure spot.

7. Lickty Split

Don’t assume licking a penis is like licking an ice cream cone. Instead, focus on creating a regular, sensual rhythm. This will really get him worked up. It also gives you the chance to get into the groove too. Having a steady pace with varying pressure helps build and sustain his excitement. The steady rhythm will also make him come faster, so if you feel him getting close, take it down a notch and tease him while he’s on the edge. That way he’ll have a longer, more intense orgasm.

8. The Science of Suction

One crucial ingredient to oral sex is knowing when and where to suck. For anyone who can’t quite figure it out, suction is created by placing the back of your tongue on the roof of your mouth and sliding backward to create a vacuum. With that being said, keep in mind it only works on the first couple of inches. Any more and the tongue gets weak nullifying whole Hoover experience. A great way to determine how much suction he likes is by having him suck on your fingers. Watching him will let you know the intensity he enjoys, not to mention drive him wild with anticipation.
blowjob ©2016 Hudson Marquez

©2016 Hudson Marquez

9. You Can Handle the Tooth

This may seem counterintuitive, but we’re going to put this out there anyway. Gently and purposefully using your teeth can take your blowjob to the next level. The key is to act with intention so that you don’t accidentally nip him and ruin the good time, and make him lose all trust in you. While he’s in your mouth, gently glide the surface your teeth along his shaft and then trail with the softness of your tongue. Of course, we recommend you go slow at first. Once you get into your groove, looks for clues in his response to see how it is working. If it makes him tense, then hit the brakes. When done properly, the mixture of hard and soft can be stellar.

10. Balls to the Wall

Don’t neglect the two delightfully goofy neighbors downstairs. His balls are super sensitive, so using your hand to gently hold or apply a slight pressure will make his whole body come alive. If your mouth gets tired, they are also a great excuse to switch focus and let your jaw muscles relax. Run your tongue lightly down the middle and then circle each ball with the tip. Repeat until he’s jelly. Or, take them into your mouth and oh-so-carefully suck. They may be big, strong men, but they are amazingly vulnerable there, so treat his balls with care. Check out more tips on how to be the bell of the ball here.

 

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About Hudson Marquez
“Marquez makes high art that is funny, outrageous and reveals the human condition which is not so high.”
—Lisa Deleon, LA Life
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